move on

some people might find it hard to move on, some people just need an adjustment, some people move on right away.. it depends on how actually you deal with it.. yeah, YOU..  and of course the reasons behind it..

well, actually i move on pretty fast, *is it?* well, on average i think people need some time, min would be 6 months.. but 3 months will do.. 

so, here are the steps.. WARNING! you might feel a lil nauseous and feel like u gonna loose your life.. i really mean it.. 

1)CRY

-tears are strength! 

-cry, cry, cry, and let it all out

-a day would be enough

2) remove them from ur sight

-erase their number

-unfriend on fb, twitter, insta, tumblr or what u can think of

-block their number

-avoid meeting them

*this step is very crucial, as u try to move forward, their sight will loosen ur faith

3)dont try to contact them, even u miss them like crazy or u might get v-fib if u dont, just DON'T

-dont reply any of their messages

-dont answer their call

-dont ever stalk them!!!! DONT STALK!

4)keep in mind what they had done to u

-this is very important, u must keep it in mind, u are not worth trying for something stupid!!!!!

-if they cheated, what are u insane?? remember

-dont be fooled by their lies

5) find a distraction

-kdrama would help a lot i think

-catch up you movies

-find your fav series

-karaoke

-hang out more

-hobby

-anything would do.. try something new

6) spend more time with your family and friends

-share everything with your family, trust me, they always help you

-listen to your friends more

-go crazy with em!

7)dont listen to break up song

-well u can listen to them for like 2 days. haha

-then, just go on with other songs

-happy and crazy songs will do

8) give more time to urself

-shopping online

-go for spa

-facial time

9) trust in God..

-the most crucial part in moving on is ur prayer.. :)

10)forgive and forget

-forgive all their mistake, this will put your heart at ease.. and forget it.. if u can.. :)

well, this is what i had been doing.. and it works well for me.. so yeah, dont ever turn back, just move along and put your aim high.. single life is the best gift i get so far.. never thought that it would be this expectation free.. 

btw, enjoy your life, dont let anybody tripped you on your way.. only you can change your life!

move on and start a new chapter.. dont waste ur time to look back and regret, move on with hope.. something happened for a reason..

p/s: hope this will help someone, someday.. 

something you can ponder..